Showing posts with label Opinion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Opinion. Show all posts

Monday, December 10, 2012

Keep the faith...??

Between the Indian Test team and Fiat Auto, i have a good week of my faith in them being tested.

My love of cricket and the Indian team is known. I have been there with them,followed them supported them through thick and thin since 1991 (earliest memories). Through world cups, whitewashes, series wins, trashings, stupid coaches, match fixing accusations, politics, IPL and what not.

But the current scenario, the Ind-Eng test series which we are trailing 2-1 has really put up some question marks on how keenly I'll be following these guys. It's not just the favt that we have lost these tests,or wr have been completely outplayed in our own backyard(some one likened the losses to a north Indian failing a hindi test set by a madrasi in chennai), but thr way the team, the administration,BCCI are reacting to it. Populist. Denial. Arrogance are some words that come to mind. Read the related blog post by @sidvee . Beautifully expresses the emotions of people like me.
I  will still follow cricket,no doubt. But i am not sure if i can bear to watch this set, this generation of players who seem to give up without even pretending to put up a fight. I dont know, j am upset today, we might win at Nagpur and all will be well. Or maybe not. But for the first time i am not sure if the faith i have put in these guys is worth it.

The Punto,of course, is a different story. When i bought it, i was going against the opinions of a lot of people.
"mileage kam hai"
"spare parts nahi milenge"
"service issues hain"
"they will shut shop and go"
And a lot more. But i had the belief that it wont be all that an issue. Plus pyaar aise hi hota hai. So i went ahead and got it. My faith in the Fiat and Tata brands because of experince also helped. I even said - " i am born in Fiat and bought up in a Tata. Dont tell me about how good or bad they are,i know very well." Sounds cool, but i knew people will pounce me at the first hint of any problem.

Well, last monday, the gear lever decided it wont move. After nearly 22 months of near hassle free service, good mileage, prompt after sales and everything, this happened. I am glad it stalled in my parking lot and not the Karjat ghati where i had driven it to over the weekend. So, with the gear stuck, panic struck.
"expense"
"will have to travel without car!"
worse - "public taane maaregi"

Called Fiat India breakdown call center. She probably did not mean it, but her voice and manner had a instant calm down effect. We will tow your car to service dealer, no cost. Within 30 mins that was done. Round 2 of panic - dealer says spares may take time, go to Wasan. Towing wala says that will cost 3k plus octroi. Wasan says spare will take time. Both wonder how i managed to get the shifter cable broken - it never happens! Finally Bhatti guya took it and saidmight take upto 15 days to get the part.
Then starts the fun. Right from " mhanun bol le lo gheu nakos" to " fiat chi service bekar aahe" "these cars are never good" and  "i had told you Tata backup is not good" all reactions panned out. Some of the more sympathetic ones wondered how the shifter broke considering i m a careful driver. I spent a better part of Tue,Wed,Thu and Friday fending off all this things.

And on Saturday,the dealer called. The parts are here. Car is serviced. And she will be back with me on monday. At hardly any cost!

Lets say one has failed me, as of now. The other did not, as of now. But moral of the story is : Keep the faith!

Bon Jovi said
"Faith: you know you're gonna live thru the rain
Lord you got to keep the faith
Now you know is not too late
Oh you got to keep the faith
Faith: don't let your love turn to hate
Right now we got to
Keep the faith
Keep the faith
Keep the faith
Lord we got to keep the faith"

Monday, February 13, 2012

Copy pasting draft posts.....

(All these are draft posts that i have collected over the last 3 - 4 weeks. Some started and stalled, some stalled at the heading stage and some stalled at the thought stage. I hate keeping drafts. So clearing those out)

A 5 year relation,or rather, this 5 year relation is gonna be very special for me. I think i can go ahead and have any number of sweethearts in my life, but time spent in this one, the comfort level, the joy, the fun, the milestones, the breaks, the 'others', the the kms clocked, all special, very special. Dear Tata Indigo LS (a.k.a Pappu!), its been a great 5 years!

The Indian team is in trouble in Aus and in Eng. No shame in losing, but being arrogant about its sucks. You will be back soon, i am sure.

I would be very surprised if the muslims in UP vote for Congress. Its the same bloody con act again and again. And they fall for it everytime. So, either they are too dumb or their votes are sold for some cash or other short term incentives. There doesnt seem to be any long term benefits for these guys.

Porngate - stupid people to be caught. It seems 40 other ppl were watching the same clips. But i would love to see how the moral high ground people would have reacted had the ministers been watching, say, a cricket match or TV soap. Because the issue isnt them watching porn, its them not paying attention to proceedings. And the manner in which our media went ballistic (the main stream media are anti BJP, pro Congress anyway,need an excuse), you would think thats a worse crime than murdering nurses or multi crore scams.

Rahul Gandhi for PM? Bullshit. There are many guesses about his intellingence, but i am sure he is smart enough (and well advised ) not to go down that path. Momma has shown the right way - head the NAC, let someone else be PM. You take credit, they take blame. And i'll reiterate - Priyanka Gandhi is going to be leading it for a long long time.... She is the real power....

Was a bit surprised to know other day that a newly married friend's wife has access to his FB account and cellphone. Was about to take that as a norm for married people, but second opinion from Silky stopped me. I think i have another pre-condition....., 'Thou shall not touch....'

Man, went shopping for kids stuff with Silky. Fatherhood's expensive in more ways than one! 7-10k for cradles! Baby seats for cars, 6-7k! Baby clothes, pregnant women clothes,this pump, that pump, what not! Phew! ( Silky is right, the rest of us will gain from his experience. The rate at which he is moving, he will have ample experience!)

5k tales is now 6k tales already.

(Thats all. Look like mini posts.)

i think with age, my attention spans are getting shorter.

Friday, January 27, 2012

"Actor hum bhi reh chuke hain"

I am reminded of this line from the movie Luck By Chance (one of my fav movies in case i haven't told you) every time i see a biker on the eastern express highway moving in the first lane, weaving in and out of traffic and so on. Because he slows down the traffic, and also runs the risk of hitting a car and more often than not, leaves a scratch on the car.

Nowadays, when i travel by car to office (he he he), i am reminded of those days when i used to travel by bike. On most days, i would be nice slow and steady in the last lane.And now, when i see idiots like ones described above, i go "Biker hum bhi reh chuke hain!!!"

(Ok ok, fine, i am not a biker. More of a driver. But i know where my place in the world is when i am just 2 wheels.)

Thursday, December 15, 2011

An awesome speech by Rahul Dravid

Thank you for inviting me to deliver the Bradman Oration; the respect and
the regard that came with the invitation to speak tonight, is deeply
appreciated.

I realise a very distinguished list of gentlemen have preceded me in the
ten years that the Bradman Oration has been held. I know that this Oration
is held every year to appreciate the life and career of Sir Don Bradman, a
great Australian and a great cricketer. I understand that I am supposed to
speak about cricket and issues in the game - and I will.

Yet, but first before all else, I must say that I find myself humbled by
the venue we find ourselves in. Even though there is neither a pitch in
sight, nor stumps or bat and balls, as a cricketer, I feel I stand on very
sacred ground tonight. When I was told that I would be speaking at the
National War Memorial, I thought of how often and how meaninglessly, the
words 'war', 'battle', 'fight' are used to describe cricket matches.

Yes, we cricketers devote the better part of our adult lives to being
prepared to perform for our countries, to persist and compete as intensely
as we can - and more. This building, however, recognises the men and women
who lived out the words - war, battle, fight - for real and then gave it
all up for their country, their lives left incomplete, futures
extinguished.

The people of both our countries are often told that cricket is the one
thing that brings Indians and Australians together. That cricket is our
single common denominator.

India's first Test series as a free country was played against Australia in
November 1947, three months after our independence. Yet the histories of
our countries are linked together far more deeply than we think and further
back in time than 1947.

We share something else other than cricket. Before they played the first
Test match against each other, Indians and Australians fought wars
together, on the same side. In Gallipoli, where, along with the thousands
of Australians, over 1300 Indians also lost their lives. In World War II,
there were Indian and Australian soldiers in El Alamein, North Africa, in
the Syria-Lebanon campaign, in Burma, in the battle for Singapore.

Before we were competitors, Indians and Australians were comrades. So it is
only appropriate that we are here this evening at the Australian War
Memorial, where along with celebrating cricket and cricketers, we remember
the unknown soldiers of both nations.

It is however, incongruous, that I, an Indian, happen to be the first
cricketer from outside Australia, invited to deliver the the Bradman
Oration. I don't say that only because Sir Don once scored a hundred before
lunch at Lord's and my 100 at Lord's this year took almost an entire day.

But more seriously, Sir Don played just five Tests against India; that was
in the first India-Australia series in 1947-48, which was to be his last
season at home. He didn't even play in India, and remains the most
venerated cricketer in India not to have played there.

We know that he set foot in India though, in May 1953, when on his way to
England to report on the Ashes for an English newspaper, his plane stopped
in Calcutta airport. There were said to be close to a 1000 people waiting
to greet him; as you know, he was a very private person and so got into an
army jeep and rushed into a barricaded building, annoyed with the airline
for having 'breached confidentiality.' That was all Indians of the time saw
of Bradman who remains a mythical figure.

For one generation of fans in my country, those who grew up in the 1930s,
when India was still under British rule, Bradman represented a cricketing
excellence that belonged to somewhere outside England. To a country taking
its first steps in Test cricket, that meant something. His success against
England at that time was thought of as our personal success. He was
striking one for all of us ruled by the common enemy. Or as your country
has so poetically called them, the Poms.

There are two stories that I thought I should bring to your notice. On June
28, 1930, the day Bradman scored 254 at Lord's against England, was also
the day Jawaharlal Nehru was arrested by the police. Nehru was, at the
time, one of the most prominent leaders of the Indian independence movement
and later, independent India's first Prime Minister. The coincidence of the
two events, was noted by a young boy KN Prabhu, who was both nationalist,
cricket fan and later became independent India's foremost cricket writer.
In the 30s, as Nehru went in and out of jail, Bradman went after the
England bowling and, for KN Prabhu, became a kind of avenging angel.

There's another story I've heard about the day in 1933, when the news
reached India that Bradman's record for the highest Test score of 334 had
been broken by Wally Hammond. As much as we love our records, they say some
Indian fans at the time were not exactly happy. Now, there's a tale that a
few even wanted to wear black bands to mourn the fact that this precious
record that belonged to Australia - and by extension, us - had gone back.
To an Englishman. We will never know if this is true, if black bands were
ever worn, but as journalists sometimes tell me, why let facts get in the
way of a good story.

My own link with Bradman was much like that of most other Indians - through
history books, some old video footage and his wise words. About leaving the
game better than you found it. About playing it positively, as Bradman,
then a selector, told Richie Benaud before the 1960-61 West Indies tour of
Australia. Of sending a right message out from cricket to its public. Of
players being temporary trustees of a great game.

While there may be very little similarity in our records or our
strike-rates or our fielding - and I can say this only today in front of
all of you - I am actually pleased that I share something very important
with Sir Don.

He was, primarily, like me, a No.3 batsman. It is a tough, tough job.

We're the ones who make life easier for the kings of batting, the middle
order that follows us. Bradman did that with a bit more success and style
than I did. He dominated bowling attacks and put bums on seats, if i bat
for any length of time I am more likely to bore people to sleep. Still, it
is nice to have batted for a long time in a position, whose benchmark is,
in fact, the benchmark for batsmanship itself.

Before he retired from public life in his 80s, I do know that Bradman
watched Sunil Gavaskar's generation play a series in Australia. I remember
the excitement that went through Indian cricket when we heard the news that
Bradman had seen Sachin Tendulkar bat on TV and thought he batted like him.
It was more than mere approval, it was as if the great Don had finally,
passed on his torch. Not to an Aussie or an Englishman or a West Indian.
But to one of our own.

One of the things, Bradman said has stayed in my mind. That the finest of
athletes had, along with skill, a few more essential qualities: to conduct
their life with dignity, with integrity, with courage and modesty. All this
he believed, were totally compatible with pride, ambition, determination
and competitiveness. Maybe those words should be put up in cricket dressing
rooms all over the world.

As all of you know, Don Bradman passed away on February 25, 2001, two days
before the India v Australia series was to begin in Mumbai.

Whenever an important figure in cricket leaves us, cricket's global
community pauses in the midst of contests and debates, to remember what he
represented of us, what he stood for, and Bradman was the pinnacle. The
standard against which all Test batsmen must take guard.

The series that followed two days after Bradman's death later went on to
become what many believe was one of the greatest in cricket. It is a
series, I'd like to believe, he would have enjoyed following.

A fierce contest between bat and ball went down to the final session of the
final day of the final Test. Between an Australian team who had risen to
their most imposing powers and a young Indian team determined to rewrite
some chapters of its own history.

The 2001 series contained high-quality cricket from both sides and had a
deep impact on the careers of those who played a part in it. The
Australians were near unbeatable in the first half of the new decade, both
home and away. As others floundered against them, India became the only
team that competed with them on even terms.

India kept answering questions put to them by the Australians and asking a
few themselves. The quality demanded of those contests, sometimes
acrimonious, sometimes uplifting, made us, the Indian team, grow and rise.
As individuals, we were asked to play to the absolute outer limits of our
capabilities and we often extended them.

Now, whenever India and Australia meet, there is expectation and
anticipation - and as we get into the next two months of the
Border-Gavaskar Trophy, players on both sides will want to deliver their
best.

When we toured in 2007-08, I thought it was going to be my last tour of
Australia. The Australians thought it was going to be the last time they
would be seeing Sachin Tendulkar on their shores. He received warm standing
ovations from wonderful crowds all around the country.

Well, like a few, creaking Terminators, we're back. Older, wiser and I hope
improved.

The Australian public will want to stand up to send Sachin off all over
again this time. But I must warn you, given how he's been playing these
days, there are no guarantees about final goodbyes.

In all seriousness, though, the cricket world is going to stop and watch
Australia and India. It is Australia's first chance to defend their
supremacy at home following defeat in the 2010 Ashes and a drawn series
against New Zealand. It is India's opportunity to prove that the defeat to
England in the summer was an aberration that we will bounce back from.

If both teams look back to their last 2007-08 series in Australia, they
will know that they should have done things a little differently in the
Sydney Test. But I think both sides have moved on from there; we've played
each other twice in India already and relations between the two teams are
much better than they have been as far as I can remember.

Thanks to the IPL, Indians and Australians have even shared dressing rooms.
Shane Watson's involvement in Rajasthan, Mike Hussey's role with Chennai to
mention a few, are greatly appreciated back home. And even Shane Warne
likes India now. I really enjoyed playing alongside him at Rajasthan last
season and can confidently report to you that he is not eating imported
baked beans any more.

In fact, looking at him, it seems, he is not eating anything.

It is often said that cricketers are ambassadors for their country; when
there's a match to be won, sometimes we think that is an unreasonable
demand. After all, what would career diplomats do if the result of a Test
series depended on them, say, walking? But, as ties between India and
Australia have strengthened and our contests have become more frequent, we
realise that as Indian players, we stand for a vast, varied, often
unfathomable and endlessly fascinating country.

At the moment, to much of the outside world, Indian cricket represents only
two things - money and power. Yes, that aspect of Indian cricket is a part
of the whole, but it is not the complete picture. As a player, as a proud
and privileged member of the Indian cricket team, I want to say that, this
one-dimensional, often cliched image relentlessly repeated is not what
Indian cricket is really all about.

I cannot take all of you into the towns and villages our players come from,
and introduce you to their families, teachers, coaches, mentors and
team-mates who made them international cricketers. I cannot take all of you
here to India to show you the belief, struggle, effort and sacrifice from
hundreds of people that runs through our game.

As I stand here today, it is important for me to bring Indian cricket and
its own remarkable story to you. I believe it is very necessary that
cricketing nations try to find out about each other, try to understand each
other and the different role cricket plays in different countries, because
ours is, eventually, a very small world.

In India, cricket is a buzzing, humming, living entity going through a most
remarkable time, like no other in our cricketing history. In this last
decade, the Indian team represents more than ever before, the country we
come from - of people from vastly different cultures, who speak different
languages, follow different religions, belong to all classes of society. I
went around our dressing room to work out how many languages could be
spoken in there and the number I have arrived at is: 15, including Shona
and Afrikaans.

Most foreign captains, I think, would baulk at the idea. But, when I led
India, I enjoyed it, I marvelled at the range of difference and the ability
of people from so many different backgrounds to share a dressing room, to
accept, accommodate and respect that difference. In a world growing more
insular, that is a precious quality to acquire, because it stays for life
and helps you understand people better, understand the significance of the
other.

Let me tell you one of my favourite stories from my Under-19 days, when the
India Under-19 team played a match against the New Zealand junior team. We
had two bowlers in the team, one from the north Indian state of Uttar
Pradesh - he spoke only Hindi, which is usually a link language for players
from all over India, ahead even of English. It should have been all right,
except the other bowler came from Kerala, in the deep south, and he spoke
only the state's regional language, Malayalam. Now even that should have
been okay as they were both bowlers and could bowl simultaneous spells.

Yet in one game, they happened to come together at the crease. In the
dressing room, we were in splits, wondering how they were going to manage
the business of a partnership, calling for runs or sharing the strike.
Neither man could understand a word of what the other was saying and they
were batting together. This could only happen in Indian cricket. Except
that these two guys came up with a 100-run partnership. Their common
language was cricket and that worked out just fine.

The everyday richness of Indian cricket lies right there, not in the news
you hear about million-dollar deals and television rights. When I look back
over the 25 years I've spent in cricket, I realise two things. First,
rather alarmingly, that I am the oldest man in the game, older to even
Sachin by three months. More importantly, I realise that Indian cricket
actually reflects our country's own growth story during this time. Cricket
is so much a part of our national fabric that as India - its economy,
society and popular culture - transformed itself, so did our most-loved
sport.

As players we are appreciative beneficiaries of the financial strength of
Indian cricket, but we are more than just mascots of that economic power.
The caricature often made of Indian cricket and its cricketers in the rest
of the world is that we are pampered superstars. Overpaid, underworked,
treated like a cross between royalty and rock stars.

Yes, the Indian team has an enormous, emotional following and we do need
security when we get around the country as a group. It is also why we make
it a point to always try and conduct ourselves with composure and dignity.
On tour, I must point out, we don't attack fans or do drugs or get into
drunken theatrics. And at home, despite what some of you may have heard, we
don't live in mansions with swimming pools.

The news about the money may well overpower all else, but along with it,
our cricket is full of stories the outside world does not see. Television
rights generated around Indian cricket, are much talked about. Let me tell
you what the television - around those much sought-after rights - has done
to our game.

A sport that was largely played and patronised by princes and businessmen
in traditional urban centres, cities like Bombay, Bangalore, Chennai,
Baroda, Hyderabad, Delhi - has begun to pull in cricketers from everywhere.

As the earnings from Indian cricket have grown in the past 2 decades,
mainly through television, the BCCI has spread revenues to various pockets
in the country and improved where we play. The field is now spread wider
than it ever has been, the ground covered by Indian cricket, has shifted.

Twenty seven teams compete in our national championship, the Ranji Trophy.
Last season Rajasthan, a state best known for its palaces, fortresses and
tourism won the Ranji Trophy title for the first time in its history. The
national one-day championship also had a first-time winner in the newly
formed state of Jharkand, where our captain MS Dhoni comes from.

The growth and scale of cricket on our television was the engine of this
population shift. Like Bradman was the boy from Bowral, a stream of Indian
cricketers now come from what you could call India's outback.

Zaheer Khan belongs to the Maharashtra heartland, from a town that didn't
have even one proper turf wicket. He could have been an instrumentation
engineer but was drawn to cricket through TV and modelled his bowling by
practising in front of the mirror on his cupboard at home, and first bowled
with a proper cricket ball at the age of 17.

One day out of nowhere, a boy from a village in Gujarat turned up as
India's fastest bowler. After Munaf Patel made his debut for India, the
road from the nearest railway station to his village had to be improved
because journalists and TV crews from the cities kept landing up there.

We are delighted that Umesh Yadav didn't become a policeman like he was
planning and turned to cricket instead. He is the first cricketer from the
central Indian first-class team of Vidarbha to play Test cricket.

Virender Sehwag, it shouldn't surprise you, belongs to the wild west just
outside Delhi. He had to be enrolled in a college which had a good cricket
programme and travelled 84kms every day by bus to get to practice and
matches.

Every player in this room wearing an India blazer has a story like this.
Here, ladies and gentlemen, is the heart and soul of Indian cricket.

Playing for India completely changes our lives. The game has given us a
chance to pay back our debt to all those who gave their time, energy and
resources for us to be better cricketers: we can build new homes for our
parents, get our siblings married off in style, give our families very
comfortable lives.

The Indian cricket team is in fact, India itself, in microcosm. A sport
that was played first by princes, then their subordinates, then the urban
elite, is now a sport played by all of India. Cricket, as my two under-19
team-mates proved, is India's most widely-spoken language. Even Indian
cinema has its regional favourites; a movie star in the south may not be
popular in the north. But a cricketer? Loved everywhere.

It is also a very tough environment to grow up in - criticism can be
severe, responses to victory and defeat extreme. There are invasions of
privacy and stones have been thrown at our homes after some defeats.

It takes time getting used to, extreme reactions can fill us with anger.
But every cricketer realises at some stage of his career, that the Indian
cricket fan is best understood by remembering the sentiment of the
majority, not the actions of a minority.

One of the things that has always lifted me as a player is looking out of
the team bus when we travelled somewhere in India. When people see the
Indian bus going by, see some of us sitting with our curtains drawn back,
it always amazes me how much they light up. There is an instantaneous
smile, directed not just at the player they see - but at the game we play
that, for whatever reason, means something to people's lives. Win or lose,
the man on the street will smile and give you a wave.

After India won the World Cup this year, our players were not congratulated
as much as they were thanked by people they ran into. "You have given us
everything," they were told, "all of us have won." Cricket in India now
stands not just for sport, but possibility, hope, opportunities.

On our way to the Indian team, we know of so many of our team-mates, some
of whom may have been equally or more talented than those sitting here, who
missed out. When I started out, for a young Indian, cricket was the
ultimate gamble - all or nothing, no safety nets. No second chances for
those without an education or a college degree or second careers. Indian
cricket's wealth now means a wider pool of well paid cricketers even at
first-class level.

For those of us who make it to the Indian team, cricket is not merely our
livelihood, it is a gift we have been given. Without the game, we would
just be average people leading average lives. As Indian cricketers, our
sport has given us the chance do something worthwhile with our lives. How
many people could say that?

This is the time Indian cricket should be flowering; we are the world
champions in the short game, and over the space of the next 12 months
should be involved in a tight contest with Australia, South Africa and
England to determine which one of us is the world's strongest Test team.

Yet I believe this is also a time for introspection within our game, not
only in india, but all over the world. We have been given some alerts and
responding to them quickly is the smart thing to do.

I was surprised a few months ago to see the lack of crowds in an ODI series
featuring India. By that I don't mean the lack of full houses, I think it
was the sight of empty stands I found somewhat alarming.

India played its first one-day international at home in November 1981, when
I was nine. Between then and now India have played 227 ODIs at home; the
October five-match series against England was the first time that the
grounds have not been full for an ODI featuring the Indian team.

In the summer of 1998, I played in a one-dayer against Kenya in Kolkata and
the Eden Gardens was full. Our next game was held in the 48-degree heat of
Gwalior and the stands were heaving.

The October series against England was the first one at home after India's
World Cup win. It was called the 'revenge' series meant to wipe away the
memory of a forgettable tour of England. India kept winning every game, and
yet the stands did not fill up. Five days after a 5-0 victory 95,000 turned
up to watch the India's first Formula One race.

A few weeks later I played in a Test match against West Indies in Calcutta,
in front of what was the lowest turn out in Eden Gardens' history. Yes we
still wanted to win and our intensity did not dip. But at the end of the
day, we are performers, entertainers and we love an audience. The audience
amplifies everything you are doing, the bigger the crowd the bigger the
occasion, its magnitude, its emotion. When I think about the Eden Gardens
crowds this year, I wonder what the famous Calcutta Test of 2001 would have
felt like with 50,000 people less watching us.

Australia and South Africa played an exciting and thrilling Test series
recently and two great Test matches produced some fantastic performances
from players of both teams, but were sadly played in front of sparse
crowds.

It is not the numbers that Test players need, it is the atmosphere of a
Test that every player wants to revel in and draw energy from. My first
reaction to the lack of crowds for cricket was that there had been a lot of
cricket and so perhaps, a certain amount of spectator-fatigue. That is too
simplistic a view; it's the easy thing to say but might not be the only
thing.

The India v England ODI series had no context, because the two countries
had played each other in four Tests and five ODIs just a few weeks before.
When India and West Indies played ODIs a month after that the grounds were
full, but this time the matches were played in smaller venues that didn't
host too much international cricket. Maybe our clues are all there and we
must remain vigilant.

Unlike Australia or England, Indian cricket has never had to compete with
other sports for a share of revenues, mind space or crowd attendance at
international matches. The lack of crowds may not directly impact on
revenues or how important the sport is to Indians, but we do need to accept
that there has definitely been a change in temperature over, I think, the
last two years.

Whatever the reasons are - maybe it is too much cricket or too little by
way of comfort for spectators - the fan has sent us a message and we must
listen. This is not mere sentimentality. Empty stands do not make for good
television. Bad television can lead to a fall in ratings, the fall in
ratings will be felt by media planners and advertisers looking elsewhere.

If that happens, it is hard to see television rights around cricket being
as sought after as they have always been in the last 15 years. And where
does that leave everyone? I'm not trying to be an economist or doomsday
prophet - this is just how I see it.

Let us not be so satisfied with the present, with deals and finances in
hand that we get blindsided. Everything that has given cricket its power
and influence in the world of sports has started from that fan in the
stadium. They deserve our respect and let us not take them for granted.
Disrespecting fans is disrespecting the game. The fans have stood by our
game through everything. When we play, we need to think of them. As
players, the balance between competitiveness and fairness can be tough but
it must be found.

If we stand up for the game's basic decencies, it will be far easier to
tackle its bigger dangers - whether it is finding short cuts to easy money
or being lured by the scourge of spot-fixing and contemplating any
involvement with the betting industry.

Cricket's financial success means it will face threats from outside the
game and keep facing them. The last two decades have proved this over and
over again. The internet and modern technology may just end up being a step
ahead of every anti-corruption regulation in place in the game. As players,
the one way we can stay ahead for the game, is if we are willing to be
monitored and regulated closely.

Even if it means giving up a little bit of freedom of movement and privacy.
If it means undergoing dope tests, let us never say no. If it means
undergoing lie-detector tests, let us understand the technology, what
purpose it serves and accept it. Now lie-detectors are by no means perfect
but they could actually help the innocent clear their names. Similarly, we
should not object to having our finances scrutinised if that is what is
required.

When the first anti-corruption measures were put into place, we did moan a
little bit about being accredited and depositing our cell phones with the
manager. But now we must treat it like we do airport security because we
know it is for our own good and our own security.

Players should be ready to give up a little personal space and personal
comfort for this game, which has given us so much. If you have nothing to
hide, you have nothing to fear.

Other sports have borrowed from cricket's anti-corruption measures to set
up their own ethical governance programmes and we must take pride in
belonging to a sport that is professional and progressive.

One of the biggest challenges that the game must respond to today, I
believe, is charting out a clear road map for the three formats. We now
realise that the sport's three formats cannot be played in equal numbers -
that will only throw scheduling and the true development of players
completely off gear.

There is a place for all three formats, though, we are the only sport I can
think of which has three versions. Cricket must treasure this originality.
These three versions require different skills, skills that have evolved,
grown, changed over the last four decades, one impacting on the other.

Test cricket is the gold standard, it is the form the players want to play.
The 50-over game is the one that has kept cricket's revenues alive for more
than three decades now. Twenty20 has come upon us and it is the format
people, the fans want to see.

Cricket must find a middle path, it must scale down this mad merry-go-round
that teams and players find themselves in: heading off for two-Test tours
and seven-match ODI series with a few Twenty20s thrown in.

Test cricket deserves to be protected, it is what the world's best know
they will be judged by. Where I come from, nation versus nation is what got
people interested in cricket in the first place. When I hear the news that
a country is playing without some of its best players, I always wonder,
what do their fans think?

People may not be able to turn up to watch Test cricket but everyone
follows the scores. We may not fill 65,000 capacity stadiums for Test
matches, but we must actively fight to get as many as we can in, to create
a Test match environment that the players and the fans feed off. Anything
but the sight of Tests played on empty grounds. For that, we have got to
play Test cricket that people can watch.

I don't think day-night Tests or a Test championship should be dismissed.

In March of last year I played a day-night first-class game in Abu Dhabi
for the MCC and my experience from that was that day-night Tests is an idea
seriously worth exploring. There may be some challenges in places where
there is dew but the visibility and durability of the pink cricket ball was
not an issue.

Similarly, a Test championship, with every team and player driving
themselves to be winners of a sought after title, seems like it would have
a context to every game.

Keeping Tests alive may mean different innovations in different countries -
maybe taking it to smaller cities, playing it in grounds with smaller
capacities like New Zealand has thought of doing, maybe reviving some old
venues in the West Indies, like the old Recreation Ground in Antigua.

When I was around seven years old, I remember my father taking a Friday off
so that we could watch three days of Test cricket together. On occasions he
couldn't, I would accompany one of his friends, just to soak in a day of
Test cricket and watch the drama slowly unfold.

What we have to do is find a way to ensure that Test matches fit into 21st
century life, through timing, environments and the venues they are held in.
I am still convinced it can be done, even in our fast-moving world with a
short attention span. We will often get told that Test matches don't make
financial sense, but no one ever fell in love with Test cricket because
they wanted to be a businessman. Not everything of value comes at a price.

There is a proposal doing the rounds about scrapping the 50-over game
completely. I am not sure I agree with that - I certainly know that the
50-over game helped us innovate strokes in our batting which we were then
able to take into Test matches. We all know that the 50-over game has been
responsible for improving fielding standards all over the world.

The future may well lie in playing one-day internationals centered around
ICC events, like the Champions Trophy and the World Cups. This would ensure
that all 50-over matches would build up for those tournaments.

That will cut back the number of one-day internationals played every year
but at least those matches will have context. Since about I think 1985,
people have been saying that there is too much meaningless one-day cricket.
Maybe it's finally time to do something about it.

The Twenty20 game as we know has as many critics as it has supporters in
the public. Given that an acceptable strike rate in T20 these days is about
120, I should probably complain about it the most. The crowd and revenue
numbers, though, tell us that if we don't handle Twenty20 correctly, we may
well have more and more private players stepping in to offer not just
slices of pie, but maybe even bigger pies themselves.

So I'll re-iterate what I've just said very quickly because balancing three
formats is important:

We have Test cricket like we have always had, nation versus nation, but
carefully scheduled to attract crowds and planned fairly so that every Test
playing country gets its fair share of Tests. And playing for a
championship or a cup, not just a ranking.

The 50-overs format focused around fewer, significant multi-nation ICC
events like the Champions Trophy and the World Cup. In the four-year cycle
between World Cups, plan the ODI calendar and devise rankings around these
few important events. Anything makes more sense than seven-match ODI
series.

The best role for Twenty20 is as a domestic competition through official
leagues, which will make it financially attractive for cricketers. That
could also keep cricket viable in countries where it fights for space and
attention.

Because the game is bigger than us all, we must think way ahead of how it
stands today. Where do we want it to be in the year 2020? Or say in 2027,
when it will be 150 years since the first Test match was played. If you
think about it, cricket has been with us longer than the modern motor car,
it existed before modern air travel took off.

As much as cricket's revenues are important to its growth, its traditions
and its vibrancy are a necessary part of its progress in the future. We
shouldn't let either go because we played too much of one format and too
little of the other.

Professionalism has given cricketers of my generation privileged lives and
we know it, even though you may often hear us whining about burn-out,
travel and the lack of recovery time.

Whenever we begin to get into that mindset, it's good to remember a piece
of Sachin's conversation with Bradman. Sachin told us that he had asked Sir
Don how he had mentally prepared for big games, what his routines were. Sir
Don said, that well, before a game he would go to work and after the game
go back to work. Whenever a cricketer feels a whinge coming on, that would
be good to remember.

Before I conclude, I also want to talk briefly about an experience I have
often had over the course of my career. It is not to do with individuals or
incidents, but one I believe is important to share. I have sometimes found
myself in the middle of a big game, standing at slip or even at the
non-strikers end and suddenly realised that everything else has vanished.
At that moment, all that exists is the contest and the very real sense of
the joy that comes from playing the game.

It is an almost meditative experience, where you reconnect with the game
just like you did years ago, when you first began, when you hit your first
boundary, took the first catch, scored your first century, or were involved
in a big victory. It lasts for a very fleeting passage of time, but it is a
very precious instant and every cricketer should hang on to it.

I know it is utterly fanciful to expect professional cricketers to play the
game like amateurs; but the trick, I believe, is taking the spirit of the
amateur - of discovery, of learning, of pure joy, of playing by the rules -
into our profession. Taking it to practice or play, even when there's an
epidemic of white-line fever breaking out all over the field.

In every cricketer there lies a competitor who hates losing, and yes,
winning matters. But it is not the only thing that matters when you play
cricket. How it is played is as important for every member of every team
because every game we play leaves a footprint in cricket's history. We must
never forget that.

What we do as professionals is easily carried over into the amateur game,
in every way - batting, bowling, fielding, appealing, celebration, dissent,
argument. In the players of 2027, we will see a reflection of this time and
of ourselves and it had better not annoy or anguish us 50-year-olds.

As the game's custodians, it is important we are not tempted by the
short-term gains of the backward step. We can be remembered for being the
generation that could take the giant stride.

Thank you for the invitation to address all of you tonight, and your
attention.

Friday, December 2, 2011

The world ought to know my opinion,no?

NDTV did a hit job on Anna Hazare with the 'flog the drunks' interview.

Sachin's next 100 will come. 100th or otherwise. Its meant to be.

FDI in retail is good. Farmers get a better,even if slightly, return. Small retailers lose slight margin. Large retailers work smarter due to competition. And we will always need salespersons even at malls. We are Indians. So jobs created.

You can call them whatever, but NDTV are a set of loyal and ehsaanmand people. Will fall over themselves to paint Congress as good guys even after they commit murder.

It seems Kingfisher Airlines earns Rs.15 cr /day (when they do fly). I am sure thier flagship business gets in more business on a dry day. Do they need bailout? Dont think so.

Whats the difference between consulting and (bull)shitting? Well, you need to cleanup after one of them.

Did people really miss the irony of spending days arranging and practising for a stupid 'flash mob'???

Just dont get the logic of aping somthing that is done somwhere else and not really applicable here? Thankgiving, for example.

Shahrukh Khan learnt the hard way that he is better of not producing movies with Ra.One. He will make money, but trying to please everyone sucks.

People say i got lucky with recent job switch activities, all i say is watch 'Luck By Chance'.

Anyone thinks holding up Parliament due to this FDI issue or black money issue is just a ploy to make sure Lokpal never reaches parliament, is never debated, passed or implemented. Sorry Anna, next time.

And Anna is going on fast again at the end of month. Warning : this time supporters may nit come, its gonna be very very cold in Ramlila Maidan....

Year end again. Car, foreign trip and new job ticked in the to do list. It wasnt too long anyway. Cure for insomnia still on it.

30 next year. None of the goals set 5 - 6 years back will happen. Goal setting is over rated. Life is all about karm(effort) and niyati(destiny). Samay se pehle and all that BS.

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Missing the point.....

There is an old saying - that lock's are to prevent the honest from stealing. The thief, if smart and expert enough, will anyway break and lock and steal. The same logic can actually be extended to laws, judiciary, police and all that. The fact that killing someone leads to life imprisonment MIGHT deter an office going, middle class person, but not a professional killer. By punishing one, you tell other potential criminals, this is what will happen to you, are you willing to risk that??

Some Mallu, who is in the Navy, kills another guy, when he sees him at his girlfriend's house, and assumes/concludes they been sleeping together. Fine, as the judge said, a prudent cannot accept that and he killed him in a minutes insanity. Crime, but can be defended, punishment scaled down. Then the couple has sex (or, as the girl claims, she was raped) with the corpse still in the house. Fine, some emotional reunion maybe. Not a crime, just seems weird, but just might indicate a relaxed state of mind, after doing / witnessing a murder.

Then they think about what to do with the body. And then, very cruelly, in a gruesome manner, with a cool mind, they take steps to chop it into pieces and dispose it in jungle. Guy goes back home, girl goes and registers a police complaint about the guy being missing. And they have gone unpunished!

Ok, the guy has been convicted for murder and destroying evidence, while the girl has been convicted of just destroying evidence. 10 years and 3 years respectively, and the girl has walked out free today. She did not deserve to.

But the point is, the main crime was not the killing. A 1000 people are killed daily - by insurgents, by criminals, by armies, by police and so on. The main crime, was the thought in their mind, that the law will never catch up with them. That their gruesome crime will never be caught. That they can get away with it. That has not been punished.

So, is the court telling us, in effect, you can kill people, play victim and get away with it?

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Those who sit on the fence......

To sit on the fence :
To remain neutral on a certain topic, to not have a stance or opinion. 
Check source here

This practice is followed by a large majority of people. In words and actions, by bookies, punters, politicians, voters, players, followers and so on. All prefer to wait and watch and then form or change their opinion. And why not, always better to know what's likely to be there ahead, if and when you do decide to go ahead.

The best example of this are live - in relationships. Not sure you can stay together, try out for sometime, stay as a married couple. If it works out, great else walk out. No commitment! I wonder if it is as easy as that. Not so much a custom in India, but more in western countries i believe. Here, the idea is tried out in a more subtle manner(if at all). But the practice spending (wasting?) time together to try and understand each other exists - doesn't matter 6 months after marriage the person / family we married is completely different from what we perceived it to be. So in that sense, sitting on the fence with a live in relationship makes sense. Lesser risk of things going wrong later.

They may go wrong earlier though....

To my mind this idea is stupid. They say for a successful marriage you need trust. I would also say commitment.And that is developed by staying in the same house and seeing what time the other person brushes his teeth???? If you have spent enough time with someone to be willing to stay with her / him, you have spent enough time to know the person. I would say its just a tactic used by people scared of commitment but wanting to enjoy the good part of marriage - sharing time, splitting bills and yes the sex. (Don't believe Salaam Namaste's 'we had it by mistake and then carried on' story). Convenient. Problem is, in the clutter of these many things, also come in clash of egos, variance in habits and the trivial-est of reasons would lead to a split. Happens more often than not, because you are sitting on the fence, you there is the easier way out if you don't like the fact that the guy is a soccer fan or farts too much!

I think it also has to do with people not wanting to be held responsible for their lives decisions in case things do not work out......

Customers are 'fence sitters'. My first boss, i forgot his name (man, i am getting old!), was in sales for 20 years. One of the early advices he gave me was to learn how to identify the 'fence sitter' customers because they waste the most time. We did cold calls, just walk in to an office and make our pitch. He would always say focus on those who are willing to know more and more about the company, about the product in the first meeting itself. That guy is forming an opinion and quick. The quicker you respond, the higher chances of him getting converted.The fence sitter would ask for a quote, seek obvious details, try to humour you, not commit on when to expect reply, make up follow up endlessly and waste your time. He may also be converted, so you don't ignore him - but as they say, he reduces your productivity.

Sitting on the fence can be good to. In certain way, all good classical batsmen, who see the ball till the last minute and then decide to hit accordingly are fence sitters. No premeditated shots, just a bit of instinct honed by hours of practice.

The funny thing is - Some people say I am a fence sitter(well, its a good thing to do na, when not so close friends ask advice?), some say i have strong opinions, almost a bias(well, Japanese Korean cars are too light!!!). I just have opinions which i express strongly or otherwise as and when required.(this blog has a label called “opinions”!).

This post by itself has no meaning.The above is part of a "blog-off" .My friend and I decided to write blogs on the word "Sit" (yeah, sorry we couldn't get a better word). It could be title, theme or story - anything that suggested itself when you heard the word. The above is mine, I'll sit on the fence and wait for your opinions before making up my mind on whether I'll post that link or not!

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Learnings from sports....

(Warning : by sports, i mean Test Cricket, ODI cricket, T20 cricket and any other form of cricket in that order followed by Tennis, Football, F1 depending upon the season)

Tennis is a game that lets you have a chance of winning even when you are down and out. We have seen number of instances of Andre Agassi coming back from the brink - match point after being 2 sets down already and then breaking it, and winning the match. There was one such match with Todd Martin. Takes talent, skill, fitness and intent. Positive intent.

Such a thing is unlikely to happen in football or hockey, say if a team is leading 5 - 0 at halftime, they can very well defend all the remaining time and win the game. The other side may try and play as well as they can, they are unlikely to make a comeback from that situation. May happen, but its a long shot.

Cricket, and let me say i am biased here, offers you a chance to redeem yourself. And the first thing you need for that is positive intent - talent, skill, fitness come later. The very design of Test cricket (2 innings per team) allows that. So does limited overs cricket. You dont bat well, but can come back and win with your bowling performance eg. 1983 World Cup final where India defended 183 against a rampaging West Indian batting line up. Or you dont bowl well but more than make up with your batting eg. the match where South Africa chased down a 430 odd runs against the mighty Australians. Ok, there are influencers like the pitch, weather, dew and so on. But whats most important is what you are thinking at the midway stage.

Last sunday, England came out all guns blazing against India needing 339 to win the game, it was a tied match. But you got appreciate the English teams intent - they could have lost the match even before they come out to bat. But the English batted well, led by captain Strauss to make a match of it. Ofcourse, they were helped by a flat pitch, poor fielding and not so wise bowling.

Today, minnows Ireland actually chased down the English total of 327 to win the match. At one stage they were 111-5 when Kevin O'Brien and Alex Cusack came together. They put 162 runs before Mooney put the finishing touches to calmly win the game. What were they thinking of their chances in the interval or 111-5 ? In O'Briens words : ' we could have just pottered around and finished at 220 in 50 overs, but that would not have looked good on TV. So i just chanced my arm, played some positive cricket and went on to win' simple. This man scored the fastest 100 of world cup history! 50 balls flat, eclipsing Matther Haydens record. Ofcourse they were helped by poor bowling, poor fielding, a flat pitch and other factors - but hey, fortune favours the brave!!!!

Sport, in general, gives us valuable lessons that can be applied to life too. If you are down and out at one stage, doesnt mean you are out of the game. Had O'Brien or Strauss, not tried, they would have definitely not won the points they got. Had they believed they will not be able to score the runs required to win, they would have lost badly.

But that intent itself isnt enough. Application, focus equally important. O'Brien today played classic cricketing shots. So did Strauss on sunday. Kevin Peterson, the man expected to perform in such situations, got out playing cheeky 'cute' shots!

This doesnt mean you will always get what you want, cos you have to contend with forces working against you - pressure, opponent, the elements and so on. This tells us the importance of de -linking effort from results - acceptance of the result after putting in your best.

So my dear friends, as we learnt from these cricketing lessons, in any situation, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by being positive, focussed at the task at hand, using the best possible means and accepting the result.

Which is more or less same as the most famous take out from the Bhagwad Gita : KARMANYE VAADHIKA RASHTEY MAA FALESHU KADACHAN

PS : Today i told a friend i'll become a preacher. But I did not promise to preach only what i practise. :)

Disclaimer : These preachings are insomnia and CWC excitement induced. To be taken seriously at your own risk.

Monday, December 13, 2010

Band Baaja Baraat……

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No, this post is not about Bhargav’s wedding, that will be a separate post.

This is about the movie Band Bajaa Baarat that I saw today. A simple, entertaining movie which has been narrated in a simple manner. And more than anything else, unlike most romantic stories, it makes sense. It isn't your typical ‘love conquers all movie’. I would not even call it an emotional one, to me this is a practical one. Both parties at fault, both need to own up. When you love someone, tell them. And tell them when the time is right. And tell it in simple, clear words. Don't assume you love someone will lead to that person loving you – may happen, may not happen, they may realize after some time, or as Bittu says, ‘ghaas nahi dalenge”. No hints, no half hearted attempts. Else better to forget about whom you want to as your life partner. Mom dad will get you someone!!!

Set in the city I have come to love over the last one year – Delhi (5 trips so far, all productive, all seasons seen, all issues seen, all kinds of people met). The language is mostly Punjab, Haryana, UP Hindi and this movie is a delight for anyone from that belt.

Both the lead actors have done a good job being friends, business partners, lovers, enemies and competitors at various stages. Anushka Sharma has definitely shown acting skills in some scenes,apart from looking good, while Ranveer plays the role of a happy go lucky guy with elan. Hope they do well in the future as too.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

For the love of cricket.....

Today, I got into a bit of a tangle.This is what happened.

I had no business being in this debate. What have I got to do with the Pommies or the Aussies or Ricky Ponting or even Sachin Tendulkar for that matter. He does not give any of his runs to me, nor does he give me any money.

Same can be said about other participants in the debate (except for Shankar sir, who has a fair bit of experience in professional cricket). But still look at the comments and the emotions involved. In its place, each comment is valid, each point of view correct.

And its just for the love of cricket that we are all involved in it.

But the point that comes across is there has to be a line beyond which you get out of the game and get into personalities. If I hate Ricky Ponting for his arrogance (not that I myself am the humblest of all people, but life has taught me enough not to think less of anyone), there are people who call Rahul Dravid selfish, VVS underachiever, Murali a chucker, Pakistanis as cheats. In most cases, this is a matter of how people interpret - Ponting has been a consistent batsman, Dravid technically the best (a technician, in Siddhu's words!!), Murali the greatest bowler ever and Pakistanis , well , you can never say one thing about them.

Someone read through the comments and said I am being aggressive here - but all I am stating is that if I like SRT or Rahul Dravid, i do not say they are great because they are better than this player or that. They are great on their own merits on the field and may also have some shortcomings. But in a team game, that too something like test cricket, where quantity of runs or wickets do not really reflect the quality of the effort - its useless comparing individuals.For eg. in 2007, in the first test of India - England Test series Dhoni batted in unfriendly conditions, in a subdued manner with the tail for a better part of the fifth day. In Harsha Bhogle's words, it was the inveterate racer driving in the first gear. It rained soon, and the match was drawn, with just 1 wicket remaining. India went on to win the next test match and the series. Does that make Dhoni the greatest batsman?

Unless you are comparing on a case to case basis, such comparisons are useless.

To all those who lament SRT has not really won a Test match for India or some say he is selfish, i have one question : At the end of a match, has anyone seen him pack his bags with all the runs he scored and take them home?

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Working reasons……

In an earlier post, about an year back, I had mentioned it feels lousy to find a reason to get to work. That’s still true.

Today i got some 7 more reasons on Seth Godin's blog.

They are :

  • To be challenged
  • For the pleasure/calling of doing the work
  • For the impact it makes on the world
  • For the reputation you build in the community
  • To solve interesting problems
  • To be part of a group and to experience the mission
  • To be appreciated

What do you work for?

For me, while money as a reason had stopped working long time back, rest of the reasons do not really work for me. But  I’d say money is good enough. At least it pays for phone bill and petrol. And stuff like that.

I guess there is the difference. People like me, who need money for something, and hence need to work will not necessarily think of the other 7 reasons. But someone like Prince William would.

Guess it finally boils down to your needs and wants – if its Roti,Kapda, Makaan, you will not think beyond money. A lot of people have often given me lectures on how they work for the challenge, impact blah blah and then were very silent when I said – Good, you enjoy your work, give me your salary, or your car.

If at all, a reason for me to work would be to get a chance to travel and see places and meet people. But some people say even that becomes a pain in some time.

Friday, November 19, 2010

Being cynical…….

cynical adj. (pronounced sĭn'ĭ-kəl)

1. Believing or showing the belief that people are motivated chiefly by base or selfish concerns; skeptical of the motives of others: a cynical dismissal of the politician's promise to reform the campaign finance system.

2. Selfishly or callously calculating: showed a cynical disregard for the safety of his troops in his efforts to advance his reputation.

3. Negative or pessimistic, as from world-weariness: a cynical view of the average voter's intelligence.

4. Expressing jaded or scornful skepticism or negativity: cynical laughter.

People have had the opinion that I an a cynical person. I came across this test (not that I trust the reliability or the logic behind it) and took it to see how cynical I am. It just reiterated what I say to all the people calling me cynical.

The result :

You Are 60% Cynical

Yes, you are cynical, but more than anything, you're a realist.
You see what's screwed up in the world, but you also take time to remember what's right.

Take the test. Feel free to compare scores.

The benefit of being cynical / realist is you are not startled by most things and can generally react or not react at all. You in fact don't believe the stories they want us to believe.

Many things like politicians and their scams.And the fact that they will not go scot free after everything.Involvement of business houses, journalists and other such people who we generally believe to be honest in such scams.

Our democracy. Requires a separate post, though i guess everyone knows what a sham it is.

Pamela Anderson in India and Bigg Boss. She says she is here to create awareness about, uh, umm, something, clean water or what not and her assets just get her the required attention. (And of course, INR 2.5 Cr for a 3 day stay. Someone said silicone has better ROI than gold!!) or that Anna Nicole Smith married for love!

Saina Nehwal is a global superstar – come on, she plays a sport played in 5 countries and gets thrashed by the Chinese).

Reality shows are real.

Amir Khan is a superstar, Ghajini, 3 Idiots, Robot, My Name is Khan made the kind of money they claim they did.

Love is all conquering,selfless and blah blah.

Performance is awarded.

The downside is, in my line of work, a realistic projection is not always welcome.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Will you pick a known evil…..???

Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before - Mae West

This,for some reason, came up as the funny quote today. It was probably funny in context of the situation Mae West said it. But by itself, its a smart statement. Its practical. Given a choice, I would always take the unknown one. Simply because it is not so much of evil as it is a perception of evil. While the other choice is a known evil. The chances of it springing a surprise and being a non-evil (?) are slim.

Making choices on the basis of expected rewards and punishments is crucial for survival. But if the rewards and punishments are known to a fair degree in one of the choices, the chances of it being picked are more. People like to play safe. Or at least they think they are playing safe. They are comfortable with the known evil, because they think it will not get worse from here. And by doing so, they close themselves to the possibility of getting something better in the other choice. Since you don't know really, you cannot rule out that the other (perceived) evil may not be so after all. And mind you, even if both choices are evil with their advantages (again,perceived), there may be a pleasant, not bargained for surprise in the unknown one. And there is that question: what would have happened if……

Whenever i have moved to a new company, i have always had someone or the other telling me “that's not a good company” or “that industry is not doing great” or “ U’ll do the same thing there” kind of things. It always boiled down to the choice I had – the comfort of the known evil I was with or the chance of better life with the unknown evil. I do not regret picking up the unknown choices i have picked so far.

Having said that, the choice between a comfortable job for some other company or starting up a new company of my own will be the real test for me. At least in this context. Because even if there is the challenge, the chance of success and riches and all that – there is always the practical consideration of a salary at the end of the month to pay all the bills.

In cases where choices are to be made for a life partner, most people prefer the easier known evil. This is actually funny – you are making a life altering decision, knowing very well this choice is definitely trouble!!! But then there is an emotional angle involved in the decision making and smartest of people have been known to make the dumbest of decisions when that happens. I am sure I'll go the unknown evil way again.

Lets see.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

An alternate today……

Today I went shopping for books. Dumping some old ones and buying some i had wanted to. One is Makers of Modern India by Ramchandra Guha. Recently released, it details out the impact 19 individuals have had on the creation of modern India over the last 200 years. Another one is India after Gandhi by the same author. History of India after Independence. Have read this earlier, thought it as worth buying. Its a lesson in history independent of how the ruling classes wanted history to be projected. Was also looking for Sunny Days, by Sunil Gavaskar, but couldn't get it.

The third book i bought is For One More Day by Mitch Albom. Not a very recommended book, not a very celebrated author. The only reason i got it is because its small, easy to handle and read when travelling in bus.

For One More Day is the story of a mother and a son, and a relationship that covers a lifetime and beyond. It explores the question: What would you do if you could spend one more day with a lost loved one? More about the book

To me, on the last page, the book also asked one more question – If you had one chance, just one chance, to go back and fix what you did wrong in life, would you take it?

In an ideal world I would find that question stupid. Simply because I believe one cannot do anything about what's happened. Secondly, there is no way to know if that alternate future would be the one that you wanted. But there have been times in not so distant past when i have wished things could have worked out differently. The question is what it is that i would have done differently and what point to make things work out differently. And there is only one thing i would want to do.

Study chemistry better in FYJC (11th).

Yes. For reasons unknown, while I was good in the first semester (which comprised of inorganic chemistry) in the second semester i hardly focused on it. And it was all organic chemistry. C-H-C, and so on, ugh!. Anyways, when i reached 12th i was not at all strong in the basic concepts of organic chemistry. Was in fact lousy and spent a lot of time and effort catching up but never really gaining the required confidence. On the other hand, i was overconfident with Physics and hence started devoting more and more time to Chemistry. Mathematics was taking care of itself, Biology and languages were being managed. Finally,as it turned out, i did just reasonably well, scoring nearly equal, but not enough in Physics and Chemistry. My PCM and aggregate score took a beating and affected my future.

Yes, think of it, one thing influenced it all - the college i went to (not so much the stream thankfully) the experiences i had (good and bad), the friends i made, contacts , maybe even the person i have turned out to be. For all i know,most of you would have never read this blog, someone else would have! I would have been in a different job profile? My facebook and linkedin contacts list would have been different.

So many possibilities – and you don't know for good or for worse.

But the question remains, for you as well : will you take the chance, if you get it ?

Saturday, February 27, 2010

We have never met…..

You don't know me. Most of the world doesn't. But i have always been there - seeing, listening, feeling, absorbing, archiving, reacting…..

And its time i spoke. All those things bottled up have only harmed me,physically and mentally.

Its not a nice place to be in. The mind of a person. And its worse when you are helpless in situations when you what i the right thing to do, but you just don't do it.

Like, when someone else started telling me this is primary for you, that isn't, i should have told him, boss i decide what's primary in my life. i did not. At that time. At a later stage, yes, but after much irritation and yes, another provocation.

When every breath i take if likely to be controlled – by coercion or otherwise, i should stand up and say, its my life and I'll do what damn feel like doing, be it roaming late night on the streets, talking on phone, buying what i feel like, working day night, or sleeping day night, going out with someone particular, eating what i want to – ITS MY FREAKING CHOICE!!!!!!!

i don't. i just keep quite. No more. Slowly, but surely, i putting up a fight here.

I expect things. When i give, i expect something back. Something like value for money.Ok, i may not be giving what one wants, and i do not expect that back. But within the limits of what i have been doing, is it not fair on my part to expect decency? Responsible behavior? An understanding that one cannot fight this war alone? Support? And why am i being subtle with this? And is the world so self centered, it cannot grasp the hints i have been dropping all along??? Why should i suffer in silence, be angry at myself, be guilt ridden???? And why cannot i let go?? I should do that.

But i don't. I just let the minute pass, calm down, move on.

Saw “Karthik calling Karthik” yesterday. This post is an outcome of me wondering  what the other Rachit must be thinking. Not much,  guess. Nor am i two people in one, fortunately or otherwise.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

My Name is Khan….

And i am not a terrorist…….neither am in an Idiot……I am King!!!

Yes, that’s precisely what SRK has conveyed….not just in the movie, but the way he leveraged the controversy (deliberate or otherwise), all the brand promotions, the show on Discovery and so on…….

Though the movie, is more than that. It’s about proving your love.

And SRK is a pro at that. Does that naturally. But to act as a patient of Autism (who just cannot express their feelings), without ever looking like a caricature or hammy, for the actor to become the character and not the other way round – is the real art.  And after doing varied roles in Swades, Chak De India, Rab ne….., Don, Om Shanti Om and Devdas, you cannot say he does the same thing again and again…….

The movie otherwise is okay dokay. A good supporting cast, a restrained Karan Johar (though its still a tearjerker - going by the girls crying around me) and some touching moments make it a watchable movie. Stupid on many counts, but fine.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Truer words were never spoken...nice mail...

20 Rules in any Office
1. Rule 1. - The Boss is always right.
2. Rule 2. - If the Boss is wrong, see rule 1.
3. Those who work get more work. Others get pay, perks, and promotions.
4. Ph.D. stands for "Pull Him Down". The more intelligent a person, the more hardworking a person, the more committed a person; the more number of persons are engaged in pulling that person down.
5. If you are good, you will get all the work. If you are really good, you will get out of it.
6.. When the Bosses talk about improving productivity, they are never talking about themselves.
7. It doesn't matter what you do, it only matters what you say you've done and what you are going to do.
8. A pat on the back is only a few centimeters from a kick in the butt.
9. Don't be irreplaceable. If you can't be replaced, you can't be promoted.
10. The more crap you put up with, the more crap you are going to get.
11. If at first you don't succeed, try again. Then quit. No use being a damn fool about it...
12. When you don't know what to do, walk fast and look worried.
13.. Following the rules will not get the job done.
14. If it weren't for the last minute, nothing would get done.
15. Everything can be filed under "Miscellaneous" .
16. No matter how much you do, you never do enough.
17. You can do any amount of work provided it isn't the work you are supposed to be doing..
18. In order to get a promotion, you need not necessarily know your job.
19. In order to get a promotion, you only need to pretend that you know your job.
20. The last person that quit or was fired will be held responsible for everything that goes wrong.

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Love (Aaj Kal) on a limp....

U got to appreciate the the dedication. Back, ribs, thigh, wrist, fingers , toes, calves - all hurting. All credits cards failed to work, some issue with some registration to be done, half sleepy - having worked till late at night on the presentation - but none of it stopped me from catching the movie - Love Aaj Kal. (On second thoughts, i could come home & seen Flintoff bat as well, but Star Cricket was kind enough to show highlight just as i reached home)

Anyways, you believe in love, or as Saif says, have you figured out love? Well, apparently it happens once in a lifetime, you cant plan or set a logic to it, you cant "get out" of it. Love is love and Imtiaz Ali has given 2 examples for that in the movie.

Stupid actually, but neat direction, easy lingo, innovative (not exactly, reminded me of Ocean's 11/12/13) narrative made it a watchable affair. Saif is gud, Deepika is there, smiling and all, music is good. The fun part was Rishi Kapoor - In Kabhie Kabhie (1976), there is a scene where Rishi Kapoor is making fun of old style slow "hi hello for an year" love, now he is saying that was good, & current generation is more busy with "kuch bhi" rather than love!!

These guys, Saif & Deepika , very smoothly, decide to part ways to follow their careers. Fine till here. 2 adults deciding something.

Then the stupidity starts. They remain friends. & tell each other everything, whats happening, dating scene etc. & they hope to go ahead & live happily with someone else. Doesn't work out,in my experience/ observation. If you want to move on, you have to move on!!! Ctrl+Alt+Del. Done. I think at least 3 people reading this will agree!!!

Unless of course, if you don't want to move on. Then get into the mess of break-ups & still friends and what not.

I mean, if you have taken a call , stick to it!

Anyways, i am not an authority on love, and maybe its easy speaking on the basis of other people's experiences, but hey- that's what i do for a living!!!

Anyways, looking forward to Kaminey now.....

England are playing well and may win / draw this match...that will be nice....

Now I'll go and give some rest to my hurting body parts. Life was nice last 2 days (except for the Humpty Dumpty fall and the aches and pains) - relaxed, work done, study done.

It's gonna get hectic now - new study, exams, and people....looking forward to mindf*&^%d me soon :)

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Whatever....

i have been told i am a spoilt brat, not a nice guy, selfish, demanding, non accomadating, not listening to reason and stuff like that......

in any case, i look good on this bike.... :-)

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Forget....possible???

Main bhool jaaoon tumhen......ab yahi munaasib hai.......

magar bhulaanaa bhi chaahoon, to kis tarah bhooloon.....ki tum to phir bhi haqeeqat ho koi khvaab nahin..............

A beautiful rendition by Jagjit Singh.....its not possible, he says....

Well, life would be less complicated for a whole lot of people if they can just forget and move on.....go ahead, settle with the next best that comes your way.....and live happily ever after....

but no.....

in the silence of the night, in the loneliness of a crowd, the taste of the coffee, long distance travel,the client's dress, just normal routine activities, driving past favourite locations, on a website, some joke, some song, a movie, an incident, in the excel sheet trick he/she taught you, in some one's hairstyle, in some one's voice, in some one's eyes or smile.....the face is always there, looking back at you....& then start the questions.....

"what is she up to?"

"what if......???"

"is he happy???"

"did i make the right decision?"

"if i had made a stronger appeal....."

"if...."

Maybe Ghajini should take his rod & start a business - making people forget.....people. No memories, no regrets, no related mood swings, no questions.....

I think Jagjit Singh is right.....